What do you do when your partner is in a rebound relationship, even if your partner is still living at home and unaware that you are aware of what’s going on?

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Rebound relationships occur after what one partner feels to be a defining moment in a long term relationship, perhaps due to an argument, or continual feelings of disappointment with that relationship, often due to a breakdown in communication. The partner either deliberately looks to have a “fling”, or allows themself to be swept off their feet by a someone else who holds out promises of happiness beyond what they believe they will experience with their exisiting partner.

Getting your partner to leave can also make them start a rebound relationship, not simply to stop thinking about you, but to prove their self worth.

Rebound relationships usually the act of someone who is still in love with the person they’ve “rebounded” from. Ignore allocating here, should you still have high regard for each other, you can overcome your difficulties.

Do you really want them back? There’s no point in taking action if your just wrapped up in hurt pride. If you do want them with you you must stay in control and have some time to yourself.

You then ought to consider your options, of which there are two, the first of which being to go away and begin a rebound relationship of your own, as long as you prepare for the possible problems further on up the road.

The path we would suggest is to take some time and think about the following

A relationship goes through 4 stages prior to becoming established. The Forming stage, the Storming stage, the Norming phase and then the Performing phase when the relationship takes off.

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These periods are usual in any realtionship, Howver, it’s the second, the “storming” stage that is the one for the purpose of getting your ex back.

While your ex approaches the “storming” part of their rebound relationship, you’re resting, readying yourself to pick up the pieces.

The sort of individual your ex will start a rebound relationship with may well be the reverse of you. If your a professional, they may be a farm hand. You need to take these facts and consider it. Adapt yourself a little.

The storming stage in a rebound relationship can mark the end of the tryst. This is the phase you have been waiting for, the moment when your ex realizes what they had with you on a deeper level, and that they want to be with you.

Don’t beg them to return, keep your dignity, and at the same time don’t get into the blame game either. Just
because their rebound relationship is coming to a close, don’t be smug or play the blame game, this will push them right back into their lover’s arms, no matter if they believe there’s no future there. Don’t be tempted to go the other way and be over apologetic either.

The one thing you SHOULD do however, and that is to TALK. As you gently move back together you must talk. This is usually the main reason people separate in the first place. And remember communication works two ways – you have to LISTEN as well!!!

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