Most people find themselves asking “What can I do to get my ex girlfriend back” following a breakup. They start to think about what could have been different. They even begin to make plans about apology letters and other things that might be able to help them score their relationship back.

This tends to be a dead end for one reason above all else: Because you can never really tell what the real reasons were behind a breakup. Women become emotional and sometimes they do not even know what led to the break up at hand and they may not know what is making them feel the way they do. In most cases, it is pointless to use all your energy on trying to figure out what went wrong.