To begin, I would say that you certainly HAVE been manifesting for your entire life. Perhaps you’ve been receiving what you DON’T desire, but you always manifest your life experience. Keep in mind that your feelings manifest and eventually turn into events in your life experience. With the help of a Life Coach, you can speed up the process of manifesting your desires.
“I frequently seem to create the one who’s emotionally unavailable. What can I do to alter that”? This is a question that was asked by one of my clients. Coincidentally, that was the main negative vibration I recurred from my lengthy string of failed relationships. They were either emotionally unavailable, lived far away or was travelling a great deal.
A lot of people carry over trust issues from past relationships, or even childhood events and traumas. The strong emotions from these memories can be a real player in our ability to attract and keep a lasting loving relationship. That was absolutely true in my case, and I wasn’t able to free myself from past emotional rackets until I got help from a Life Coach. The first step is to discover exactly what story you have in place that’s preventing you from truly living and then clear it out.
You’ve recently come out of a negative relationship that doesn’t work for you anymore. It was difficult to stop the situation, because it wasn’t horrible, although your heart longed to be truly fulfilled in love. Now you have found yourself being lonely and have a stressfl time shutting the door fully on that difficult relationship. Does this ring true for you?
You begin to doubt yourself, wondering if the situation was really as bad as you thought.
“I often seem to create the one who’s emotionally unavailable. What should I do to change that”? This is a question that was asked by one of my clients. Interestingly, that was the main negative vibration I recurred from my lengthy string of relationship failures. They were either emotionally inept, lived out of town or traveled a great deal.
To begin, I’d have to say that you certainly HAVE always had success in manifesting. Perhaps you have been getting what you DON’T desire, but you have always been manifesting. Remember that your thoughts manifest and will become events in your life experience. With the help of a Life Coach, you can speed up the process of manifesting your desires.
“I always seem to create a partner who is emotionally unavailable. What can I do to alter that”? This is a question that was asked by one of my clients. Coincidentally, that was the main complaint I recurred from my lengthy string of relationship failures. They were either emotionally inept, lived far away or traveled a great deal.
If you’ve tried repeating positive realizations, messing with vision boards and other tools to help get you in the attraction mode and they haven’t been effective, there could be a couple reasons. Affirmations and Vision Boards are tools you can use when you want assistance in digging into that emotional place of what it’s like to have your want manifested. If you are ineffectively using these tools and not truly seeing that feeling center, then you’re just doing a rote action and will not likely get much success. If you are finding that emotional area and persistently not receiving results, then chances are you have got more resistance than you realize. I was at one point in the same situation. I did not know what was in the way. I needed to get life coaching that made all of the difference.
Do you ever wonder if you are with the ‘right’ one? How do you truly know for sure? This is a question I get asked when a person’s relationship has several problems. The problem could either be you’re experiencing lots of mixed signals, or it may take lots of grueling work to have the relationshiop run well. Don’t get me wrong, a relationship does take effort, but they need not be hard work. Communication is fairly easy. You should feel free to voice what is on your mind. When situations become hairy, and they will, you will have the courage and presence of mind to smoothe it over later on by accepting responsibility for your actions or words.
Many of us transfer over emotional issues from past relationships, or even childhood events and traumas. The intense feelings from these past experiences can be a real factor in our capability to create and sustain a long-lasting loving relationship. This was absolutely true in my case, and I wasn’t able to free myself from previous emotional rackets until I acquired assistance from a Life Coach. The beginning step is to discover truly what recurrence you have in play that is preventing you from truly living and then clear it out.
