“I often seem to attract a partner who is emotionally unavailable. What should I do to alter my vibration”? This is a question that came from one of my clients. Interestingly, that was the strongest complaint I had from my lengthy string of relationship failures. They were either emotionally inept, lived out of town or was travelling a great deal.
A common problem for friends of mine is their assumption that they have to drop 50 pounds or be financially secure prior to being able to create lasting love. This is of course a myth. This is just low self-esteem blocking you from being truly whole.
It’s great to want to look your best, be your best, have high self-esteem and be ok about your money situation. It feels truly wonderful to feel secure, confident, and beautiful.
Susan from North Carolina came to me because she is concerned that she’ll never again acquire another spouse because she is convinced no one desires to settle into a made ready family. If this rings true for you or someone you know, you could believe that, but in reality it is just not so. I know several friends who have little ones, teenagers, and everything in between and they have still acquired a man that adores them and their children. He is out there. If you have the desire, you have the ability to create this wonderful relationship into your life.
