Marriage reconciliation – the first move.
In most instances the approach to a counselor for assistance to help restore a relationship is made by only one of the partners. It is a established fact that in most cases this is the woman rather than the man.
It is good practice for a counselor to explore the issues in the first case with the partner who made the approach for help as this person has already shown a willingness to reconcile. An experienced counselor will have dealt with most marital problems and will formulate a plan to help guide you through the reconciliation process. You may however feel that you are capable of dealing with your break up on your own without any outside help.

