Susan from North Carolina came to me because she is concerned that she will never again acquire another husband because she thinks nobody desires to walk into a made ready family. If this rings true for you or someone you know, you could believe that, but in reality it’s just not so. I know many women who have toddlers, teenagers, and everything in between and they have still found a man who adores them as well as their children. He’s out there. If you contain the want, you have the capability to create this wonderful relationship into your life experience.
If you’ve attempted repeating positive realizations, messing with vision boards and other tools to help get you in the attracting mode and they have not been effective, there could be a couple issues. Affirmations and Vision Boards are utilities you can use when you desire help getting into that feeling area of what it is like to have your desire manifested. If you are ineffectively using the utilities and not actually finding the emotional place, then you are just performing a repetitive action and won’t likely get a lot of positive output. If you’re finding that emotional area and persistently not receiving results, then chances are you have got more resistance than you realize. That was how it was for me. I didn’t know what was in my way. I needed to get life coaching that made all of the difference.
Have you ever questioned if you are with the ‘right’ one? How would you truly know for sure? This is a question people ask me when the relationship has many ups and downs. The problem could simply be you’re experiencing many mixed signals, or it takes lots of hard effort to have the relationshiop run smoothly. Do not get me wrong, a relationship does take effort, but they need not be hard work. Communication is pretty simple. You should feel free to say what’s on your mind. When relationships get intense, and they will, you have the courage and peace of mind to smoothe the situation over later on by taking responsibility for your actions or words.
“I don’t wish to be hurt again, but I really want to find my soul mate. How can I increase confidence and find my soul mate”?
You have two ways to go here. 1) You can wait until you’ve had enough time in between the pain in your previous relationship or 2) start healing and releasing the past. Since you desire to reach your soul mate, then I’d do the work in releasing. It is quicker and simpler than you would think. Acquiring help from a certified relationship life coach can make your path smoother.
“I don’t wish to be hurt again, but I truly want to be with my soul mate. How can I feel more confident about love”?
You have two options to go here. 1) You can mope until you have had adequate time in between the hurt in your past relationship or 2) begin moving on and letting go of the past. Since you desire to reach your soul mate, then I’d do the work in letting go. It is quicker and simpler than you imagine. Receiving help from a certified relationship life coach can make your path smoother.
“I often seem to attract a partner who is emotionally unavailable. What should I do to alter my vibration”? This is a question that came from one of my clients. Interestingly, that was the strongest complaint I had from my lengthy string of relationship failures. They were either emotionally inept, lived out of town or was travelling a great deal.
A common problem for friends of mine is their assumption that they have to drop 50 pounds or be financially secure prior to being able to create lasting love. This is of course a myth. This is just low self-esteem blocking you from being truly whole.
It’s great to want to look your best, be your best, have high self-esteem and be ok about your money situation. It feels truly wonderful to feel secure, confident, and beautiful.
Susan from North Carolina came to me because she is concerned that she’ll never again acquire another spouse because she is convinced no one desires to settle into a made ready family. If this rings true for you or someone you know, you could believe that, but in reality it is just not so. I know several friends who have little ones, teenagers, and everything in between and they have still acquired a man that adores them and their children. He is out there. If you have the desire, you have the ability to create this wonderful relationship into your life.
Other people often does not meet our expectations because we do not communicate their expectations clearly. Unfortunately, many of us come into marriage with expectations that we do not know – do not live up to our spouses up to them. Then things ugly.
These expectations usually in a particular case category – the role of our spouse. Ideally, our expectations are discussed in this area and understood in the dating / courting Period. But too many couples never discuss their roles until after they are married. And even if they do, it is very light, in broad terms and can cover a lot of details. But the details are where the trouble comes in.
My wife of six months – we’d been together for six years before hand – is pregnant and lied to me. Poked holes in condoms and replaced her birth control with something else.
My ultimatum to her was either keep the baby and file for divorce or not keep it but not necessarily abortion and I’ll stay.
