A lot of us transfer over trust issues from previous relationships, or sometimes childhood problems and traumas. The strong feelings from these past experiences can be a real player in our ability to attract and sustain a long-lasting loving relationship. That was unfortunately true in my case, and I wasn’t able to free myself from previous emotional experiences until I acquired assistance from a Life Coach. The beginning step is to realize truly what recurrence you have in play that’s keeping you stuck and then clear it out.
You have ceased a non-functioning relationship that does not work for you anymore. It was difficult to cease the situation, because it wasn’t terrible, but your heart wished to be completely fulfilled in love. Currently you find yourself being lonely and have a stressfl time closing the door completely on that previous relationship. Does this sound like you?
You start to question yourself, asking yourself if your relationship was truly as bad as you thought.
You’ve ended a non-functioning relationship that does not work for you anymore. It was difficult to cease the situation, because it wasn’t terrible, although your heart longed to be completely fulfilled in love. Currently you have found yourself feeling lonely and have a stressfl time closing the door completely on that difficult relationship. Does this ring true for yourself?
You begin to doubt yourself, wondering if your relationship was truly as bad as you thought.
Oftentimes you realize that when you want to be in a love relationship what constantly starts manifesting is a low self-image or low self-confidence. T?hings like “Oh gosh, I will have to eventually get naked. I just don’t think I’m trim or sexy enough.” Due to the law of attraction, naturally, not only will several intentions come on top of the others, but you’ll continuously be attracting more feelings of a poor self-image. These intentions can create problems with your self-image. But do not worry, we focus on these problems in the program and you will learn several hints and tools to help you when you work with self-image and self-confidence with a life coach.
A lot of us transfer over trust issues from previous relationships, or even childhood events and traumas. The intense feelings from these past experiences can be a real player in our ability to attract and keep a long-lasting loving relationship. This was unfortunately real in my case, and I wasn’t able to free myself from past emotional rackets until I acquired assistance from a Life Coach. The first step is to discover exactly what story you have in place that’s preventing you from truly living and then expunge it from your mind.
You have ceased a mediocre relationship that doesn’t fit you anymore. It was difficult to stop the relationship, because it wasn’t horrible, but your heart wished to be truly fulfilled in love. Now you have found yourself being lonesome and have a difficult time closing the door fully on that previous relationship. Does this ring true for you?
You start to question yourself, wondering if it was really as bad as you thought.
I overheard an interesting conversation the other day. The woman that was talking to another said that she believes we are all ‘connected’.
After thinking it over for a bit, a few questions came to mind.
If we are all connected then why do people feel lonely at times? One would presume that if we were all connected that it would be impossible to feel isolated or lonely.
Another thought is that if we are all connected why do we have so much trouble understanding each other?
“I am afraid of being betrayed again, but I truly want to reach my soul mate. How can I feel more confident about love”?
You have two options to pursue here. 1) You can stall until you have had enough time in between the hurt in your previous relationship or 2) start moving on and letting go of the past. Since you desire to find your soul mate, then I’d do the work in releasing. It is faster and easier than you would think. Acquiring help from a certified relationship life coach can make your path smoother.
“I frequently tend to create the one who is emotionally unavailable. What should I do to alter that”? This is a question that came from one of my clients. Interestingly, that was the main complaint I recurred from my long string of failed relationships. They were either emotionally inept, lived far away or was travelling all the time.
When you continue attracting unavailable lovers, my question to you is, “Is something in you that is afraid to commit, or afraid to be transparent in a love relationship”? That may be hard to accept right now, but that’s what I have found to be the situation most of the time.
Do you sometimes question if you are with the ‘right’ one? How would you really know for sure? This is a question people ask me when the relationship has many ups and downs. The problem could either be you are getting lots of mixed signals, or it may take lots of grueling work to have the relationshiop run well. Do not get me wrong, a relationship does take work, but they need not be hard work. Communication is fairly simple. You should feel free to say what is on your mind. When relationships get hairy, and they will, you need the courage and presence of mind to smoothe things over later on by accepting responsibility for your actions or words.
