If you have attempted repeating positive realizations, messing with vision boards and other tools to assist get you in the attraction mode and they haven’t been effective, there could be a couple reasons. Affirmations and Vision Boards are utilities you can use when you want help getting into that feeling area of what it’s like to have your want manifested. If you are ineffectively facilitating these tools and not truly seeing that feeling place, then you’re just doing a repetitive action and will not likely get a lot of success. If you’re realizing that emotional area and persistently not getting results, then chances are you’ve got more resistance than you realize. I was at one point in the same situation. I did not understand what was in the way. I had to get life coaching that created all of the difference.
Do you sometimes question if you are with the ‘right’ one? How would you truly know for sure? This is a question I get asked when the relationship has several problems. The problem could simply be you are experiencing lots of mixed signals, or it takes lots of grueling work to have the relationshiop go well. Don’t get me wrong, a relationship does take work, but they don’t need to be hard work. Communication is fairly simple. You should feel free to voice what is on your mind. When situations become hairy, and they will, you need the courage and presence of mind to smoothe the situation over later on by taking responsibility for your actions or words.
Have you ever wondered if you are with the ‘right’ one? How would you truly know for sure? This is a question people ask me when a person’s relationship has many ups and downs. The problem could simply be you’re experiencing lots of stop and go signs, or it may take a lot of grueling effort to have the relationshiop run smoothly. Don’t get me wrong, a relationship does take effort, but they do not need to be hard work. Communication is fairly easy. You can feel free to say what is on your mind. When situations become intense, and they will, you have the courage and peace of mind to smoothe things over later on by taking responsibility for your actions or words.
A lot of us carry over trust problems from previous relationships, or sometimes childhood problems and traumas. The intense feelings from these past experiences can be a real player in our ability to attract and keep a lasting loving relationship. That was unfortunately true in my case, and I wasn’t capable of freeing myself from past emotional experiences until I acquired help from a Life Coach. The beginning step is to discover truly what recurrence you have in play that’s preventing you from truly living and then clear it out.
You have ended a non-functioning relationship that does not fit you anymore. It was difficult to stop the situation, because it was not horrible, although your heart wished to be completely fulfilled in love. Currently you have found yourself being lonely and have a hard time closing the door completely on that difficult relationship. Does this ring true for yourself?
You begin to question yourself, wondering if the situation was really that bad.
A typical concern for clients of mine is their belief that they have to lose 50 pounds and/or be financially independent prior to being able to attract lasting love. This is of course a myth. This is just low self-esteem blocking you from being truly whole.
It’s wonderful to want to appear your best, be your perfect self, have high self-esteem and be ok concerning your money situation. It feels truly wonderful to feel secure, confident, and beautiful.
Pat from Washington DC truly desires to share her life with a love life partner but is worried about being financially stable before attracting her ideal relationship.
I really understand your concern and you’re not alone. That is a very common concern for men and women. However, if every outside condition had to be perfect prior to doing something in life, we would be stuck in quicksand waist-deep for the rest of our lives, would we not? Creation just does not work that way. This means life doesn’t need to be that way for you either.
A common concern for friends of mine is their belief that they have to lose 50 pounds and/or be financially independent before they can attract lasting love. This is of course a myth. This is just low self-esteem blocking you from being truly whole.
It’s great to want to look your best, be your best, have high self-esteem and feel good about your money situation. It feels really good to feel stable, confident, and attractive.
Susan from North Carolina contacted me because she’s afraid that she will never get another husband because she is convinced no one desires to walk into an already established family. If this sounds like you or someone you know, you may believe that, but it’s just not so. I know many women who have little ones, teenagers, and everything in between and they’ve still found a man that loves them as well as their children. He’s out there. If you contain the want, you have the capability to attract this wonderful relationship into your life.
Pat from Washington DC deeply wants to spend her life with a love life partner but is worried about being financially stable before attracting her ideal relationship.
I really feel for you, and you are not alone. That’s a very understandable feeling for men and women. However, if every external factor needed to be perfect before we did anything in life, we would be sunken in quicksand waist-deep for the rest of our lives, would we not? The Law of Attraction just does not work that way. That means life doesn’t need to be that way for you either.
