“I often seem to create the one who’s emotionally unavailable. What should I do to change that”? This is a question that was asked by one of my clients. Interestingly, that was the main negative vibration I recurred from my lengthy string of relationship failures. They were either emotionally inept, lived out of town or traveled a great deal.
To begin, I’d have to say that you certainly HAVE always had success in manifesting. Perhaps you have been getting what you DON’T desire, but you have always been manifesting. Remember that your thoughts manifest and will become events in your life experience. With the help of a Life Coach, you can speed up the process of manifesting your desires.
“I always seem to create a partner who is emotionally unavailable. What can I do to alter that”? This is a question that was asked by one of my clients. Coincidentally, that was the main complaint I recurred from my lengthy string of relationship failures. They were either emotionally inept, lived far away or traveled a great deal.
If you’ve tried repeating positive realizations, messing with vision boards and other tools to help get you in the attraction mode and they haven’t been effective, there could be a couple reasons. Affirmations and Vision Boards are tools you can use when you want assistance in digging into that emotional place of what it’s like to have your want manifested. If you are ineffectively using these tools and not truly seeing that feeling center, then you’re just doing a rote action and will not likely get much success. If you are finding that emotional area and persistently not receiving results, then chances are you have got more resistance than you realize. I was at one point in the same situation. I did not know what was in the way. I needed to get life coaching that made all of the difference.
Do you ever wonder if you are with the ‘right’ one? How do you truly know for sure? This is a question I get asked when a person’s relationship has several problems. The problem could either be you’re experiencing lots of mixed signals, or it may take lots of grueling work to have the relationshiop run well. Don’t get me wrong, a relationship does take effort, but they need not be hard work. Communication is fairly easy. You should feel free to voice what is on your mind. When situations become hairy, and they will, you will have the courage and presence of mind to smoothe it over later on by accepting responsibility for your actions or words.
Many of us transfer over emotional issues from past relationships, or even childhood events and traumas. The intense feelings from these past experiences can be a real factor in our capability to create and sustain a long-lasting loving relationship. This was absolutely true in my case, and I wasn’t able to free myself from previous emotional rackets until I acquired assistance from a Life Coach. The beginning step is to discover truly what recurrence you have in play that is preventing you from truly living and then clear it out.
Pat from Washington DC truly desires to share her life with a love life partner but is worried about being financially stable before attracting her ideal relationship.
I truly understand your concern and you’re not the only one feeling this way. That is a very understandable feeling for men and women. However, if every outside factor needed to be perfect prior to doing something in life, we’d be sunken in quicksand waist-deep for the rest of our lives, wouldn’t we? The Law of Attraction just does not function that way. This means your life experience does not have to be that way for you either.
Susan from North Carolina contacted me because she is afraid that she will never attract another spouse because she is convinced no one wants to walk into a ready-made family. If this rings true for you or a person you know, you could believe that, but it is just not so. I know of women who have toddlers, teenagers, and everything in between and they have still acquired a man who adores them and their children. He’s somewhere. If you contain the want, you have the capability to attract this amazing love into your life experience.
“I don’t want to be hurt again, but I really want to be with my soul mate. How can I feel more confident about love”?
You have two options to go here. 1) You can wait until you’ve had enough time in between the pain in your previous relationship or 2) begin healing and releasing the past. Since you desire to reach your soul mate, then I would do the work in releasing. It is faster and easier than you would think. Acquiring help from a certified relationship life coach can make your path smoother.
“I often tend to create the one who is emotionally unavailable. What should I do to change that”? This is a question that came from one of my clients. Coincidentally, that was the main complaint I recurred from my long history of failed relationships. They were either emotionally unavailable, lived far away or was travelling a great deal.
