Women become clingy for different reasons but usually it has to do with the relationship we’ve has with our parents and our past romantic partners. This neediness can lead to your mate feeling frustrated and can lead to him ending your relationship. So that you can avoid a dating disaster, here are some tips to stop being clingy and reduce the neediness factor in your relationship.

Plan Your Together Time. Do you know when you’ll see him or talk to him again? If you don’t know you’ll be more anxious about your relationship. Have regular planned time together. A regular time to call or text, a date night, a regular day trip. Both of you need to commit to making this time a priority.This planned time together can help decrease clingy behavior and give you something to look forward to.

You need to learn how to trust him. You can’t think “what if?”when you’re not with each other. Don’t worry about what might happen if he sees a prettier woman, if he sees his ex or if he’s on the phone with a woman. The “what ifs?” can drive you crazy. You need to think about “what is?”. You need to remind yourself what your relationsihp is and try not to stress what might happen. Focus on the things that you know are true, not what you imagine. If he’s given you reason to suspect that he’s doing something, you need to talk to him.

Have a life of your own. Before you started dating, you had friends, hobbies and things that you did with your friends. You happiness is dependent on him when you center everything you do around him. The only person what can make you happy is you. Stay in touch with your friends and family and find hobbies and activities. You’ll be happier. You’ll be less fixated on him and you’ll have things to talk about.

Remember how great a woman you are. Remember why he started a relationship with you. You’re smart and beautiful and fun. Remember how amazing you are. If you don’t believe this, make it your affirmation, write it down and repeat it throughout your day. Go around people that make you feel good and do things that make you feel good. You need to feel good about yourself. Confidence is sexy and makes you more attractive , and he’ll notice.

Tell him if you know why you’re being clingy. If he’s doing things that make you feel insignificant, then it’s time for you to have a serious talk. Most women become needy when they don’t feel secure in their relationship. Talk it out, find out id he just doesn’t realize how he’s making you feel or if he’s just not into you. If he refuses to work on improving your relationship, it may be time for you to leave.

Remember in the end you need to do what’s best for you, not him. So stop being needay and clingy and become a cool, confident woman.

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