How To Talk To Women ‘ A Guide For The Uninitiated
When a guy is twenty, he very often has no idea how to talk to women or how to treat them. This is not by accident: women tend to mature more quickly than men and by the age of twenty the average female is simply more mature than the average male. That does not make life easy for young guys at all.
Not that any man has ever learned to fully comprehend the complicated sets of codes that a woman refers to as ‘talking’. Even after thirty years of marriage many of us still regularly find ourselves in the situation where you would make a remark that you consider to be completely innocuous and your lady would virtually explode. Nevertheless, there are a few rules of the game that men better learn as quickly as possible.
One thing that guys should learn is that women like to be treated with respect. She likes you to tell her that she’s pretty, but she certainly doesn’t like you to remark on the fact that her dress is so short you can see her underwear ‘ even if that should be the case!
Another useful fact to remember is that ladies like the conversation to be about themselves. Not that they are egocentric. Women can indeed be very selfless. But if you are introduced to a lovely lady do not spend the first half an hour explaining to her how good you are at your job. Rather ask her about herself and the things she likes (or dislikes).
The vast majority of woman also prefer men who are courteous. Do not go too far with this, but offering to carry her heavy briefcase or shopping bags will most of the time count in your favor. Don’t spoil the moment by remarking on how you feel you have to help the ‘weaker sex’ though…
A very important aspect of male-female conversation that you have to learn fast is not only how to talk to women, but what you are allowed to say about other women. It’s perfectly fine to tell your female partner that you think the neighbor’s wife is obese and ugly. It’s NOT fine to say that about your mother in law. And remarking that the beauty queen across the street has lovely legs will without doubt earn you a period in the dog box.
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