“I often seem to create the one who’s emotionally unavailable. What should I do to change that”? This is a question that was asked by one of my clients. Interestingly, that was the main negative vibration I recurred from my lengthy string of relationship failures. They were either emotionally inept, lived out of town or traveled a great deal.
When you continue attracting unavailable relationships, my question to you is, “Is there an aspect of your life that is afraid to commit, or afraid to be truly open in a love relationship”? That may be hard to take in right now, but that’s what I find to be the case in most cases.
As a relationship life coach, I provide Relationship Life Coaching for Women. I also recommend that you get really clear about what you want. Get clear by creating a list of the qualities you want in your perfect mate.
You make the list for yourself so you can get clarity concerning what it is you really want. You’ll start to realize where any weaknesses are in your vibration as you make the list. You’ll see where you should go to work on your level of creation or belief in the chance of creating what you’re asking for.
To evoke the state of feeling happy expectancy, next ask yourself the question “Why do I want it”? It’s time to engage your imagination. When you answer this question, imagine all the wonderful activities you will do with your attracted mate. Think of grinning, holding hands, and introducing him to your girlfriends. Think of what it will be like to be with someone who’s romantic and loves to bring you flowers.
You make the list for yourself, and the Universe responds to your clear vibration – the undiluted intention and unresisted desire!
Most of us have been trained as a child to accept what you get, it is not polite to ask for anything, why can’t you just be content with what you have? – kind of like programming. I suggest you ask for it all and keep feeling yourself into the alignment of your desires.
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